Buying a Home: Why the Moment You Walk In Matters
- Homegirls Group
- Jun 10
- 2 min read
When you're getting into the thick of buying a home, between scheduling showings, scrolling Zillow,, and responding to agent emails, it’s easy to go into autopilot. But there’s something we want you to remember, so it doesn’t go overlooked, and that’s the moment you walk through the door at a listing.
Pause there or once you’re inside, take it back to the beginning.
Whether you’re stepping in from the garage, the porch, or the back door, take a second to ask yourself “How do I feel right now?”. Does the space give you a sense of peace? Can you picture setting down your keys, kicking off your shoes, and exhaling after a long day? That first view when you walk in is so often overlooked because you’re just eager to get inside and start exploring. But that first impression, every single evening when coming home, and it matters more than you think.
Make Space to Take in the Space
It’s totally normal to feel pressure during showings. Your realtor might be sharing facts, there may be other buyers in the home, and your mental checklist might be running wild. But we always encourage our clients to take a moment of peace, advocate for a moment of calm if during an open house. Let whoever is present know you need to be given the physical and mental space to take it in. Stand in the doorway. Look straight ahead. Take in the light, the flow, the vibe.
Because this is what you’ll walk into every day when you come home from work, from school drop-offs, from life. It’s more than walls and flooring, it’s home. Does it feel like yours?
Advocate for What You Want (Even If You Have an Agent)
Having a great agent is key, but even the best one can’t read your mind. If there’s a specific feeling, layout, or vibe you're chasing, speak it out loud. Share what excites you. Tell your agent what’s non-negotiable and what you're willing to compromise on. If you walk into a home and you can’t instantly see yourself settling in with a cup of tea at the end of the day, that matters. If something feels off that you can’t quite explain, that matters too. Saying something is how we get one step closer to getting exactly what we desire.
You're not being picky. You're being intentional because this is your home. Your safe place. Your reset button. Don’t settle on that feeling.
So when you're walking through that next showing, forget the shoe covers, the rules, and the pressure for just a second, and let yourself dream. Because your favorite part of the day should be coming home to just that, the dream

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Need an agent who gives you the space to feel along with an advocate for your vision? That’s exactly what we do. Let’s go find your version of home.
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